Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.And as with any loss, big or small, time is needed to grieve and to reassess who you are, where you've been and where God wants you to go.I went on to have a lot of fun, I experienced both highs and lows, there was plenty of both laughter and tears and I enjoyed it all. Believe me, it’s hard to go back from lying about your age or showing that you’ve got a full head of hair in a profile picture when reality is very different. Know your values – The things that are really important to you in life should be reflected in your relationships. And whilst we’re talking about profiles, get yourself some striking photographs – they do make such a huge difference. Check your state of mind – Make sure you’re in the right frame of mind before you head to dating websites.
Especially when you have been an innocent victim, or when you put a lot of effort into saving the marriage only to not succeed, there are some serious scars.“It helped, because I got to see what 'normal' looked like,” Roché says.“I also saw that my ex wasn't the only guy who would want to be with me.For some people, that happens before they move out.Others are still emotionally married after the divorce is final.” Dena Roché started dating while waiting for her divorce papers to come through.When Becky was invited to lunch by a man she met at a bookstore, she was excited.