You know you’re dating a woman with her sh*t together if she only accepts a date planned in advance – and that’s how it should be. If there’s a second time, she’ll call you out on it because self-confident woman have no problem calling men out on their bullsh*t.There are good girls that guys want to introduce to their mother.Whenever Cindy brought up his drinking, Evan agreed with her concerns, promised to quit, and told her not to worry about it.She hoped her affection would give him the incentive to mature into a better man.Evan liked to visit a local sports bar and relax with his old college buddies, which Cindy didn’t mind.The only times it really bothered her was when he occasionally went overboard and wound up intoxicated.
Evan appreciated Cindy’s support, and after 10 months of dating, he asked her to marry him. Instead, his unresolved habits resurfaced and shattered her heart.He still had occasional setbacks with alcohol, but they were less frequent than before. Soon after their engagement, Evan’s real estate business began to falter. Cindy’s story is a common one among Christian single women of all ages.Under stress, he started to work longer hours, and frequently stopped by the sports bar on his way home. Sincere Christian women often will ignore the nice Christian guys and instead pursue relationships with the “bad boys.” Some ladies even find that they're only attracted to the rebels. Before answering that, I think I need to explain what I mean when I say “bad boy.” A bad boy is a man who is outwardly attractive, but he’s unwilling to offer sacrificial love in a relationship.They'll make you laugh, cry and maybe feel a little sorry for yourself. If reading this is your first introduction to my writing, I feel the need to give a disclaimer.He swore to Cindy that he was just talking with his friends. And he’s too immature and preoccupied with himself to share genuine compassion, concern, or acceptance.