Being betrayed by two people you care about has to be one of the worst feelings ever, especially when things are done in an underhanded and sneaky way.Despite the fact that basic girl code rules say we can’t date our best friend’s ex (unless we have her permission and even then, ), people always do it anyway.Dating is a stage of romantic or sexual relationships in humans whereby two or more people meet socially, possibly as friends or with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in a more committed intimate relationship or marriage.It can be a form of courtship that consists of social activities done by the couple.I only accepted his invite because she hated him and wanted him out of her life and didn’t want anything to do with him. But I asked her and let her know because I wanted to be honest and didn’t want to go behind her back.All my other friends say I did a good thing in telling her before I did anything and that she just taken it too far. I feel like I was the bad person in this problem and she was the good person.
Am I the bad person for doing what I did even though I was honest? Signed, Ellie Dear Ellie, Being honest about wanting to date your friend’s ex was better than going behind her back but you haven’t mentioned whether or not she gave you the go ahead once you told her.They are real people with hopes and dreams, just like you. Your friend played by the rules and was up front with you. You may have lost this guy but, if you learn from the experience, you'll move on to having a much better, and more mature, relationship with the next guy. Dealing with your feelings Being supportive Working around awkward situations Community Q&A Breaking up can be hard and is even harder in that odd situation where your friend starts dating him or her after you broke up.These people will have dates on a regular basis, and they may or may not be having sexual relations.This period of courtship is sometimes seen as a precursor to engagement or marriage.You've been trying to control the situation by dropping hints and manipulating, hoping that people will react the way you want them to and that you'll get your way without ever having to come out and ask for it.