but lately I have lost all interest,, and I see no point in having a relationship..
for one most of the relationships I've been in to wasn't that great..
The society too is not at peace having such a person.
It is more than normal for men as early as 16 years to start showing interest in girls.
Once that age has been passed by time almost two times, the great dilemma arises.
At 18, I went to college identifying as a lesbian (I do not identify this way now) and like many queer kids in college, I quickly made a group of queer friends (affectionately referred to by others as “The Lesbian Mafia”).
It is the feeling that, now that you have come out, you must work to maintain your queerness, that your queerness must be readable and visible, and if it was not, you were doing a disservice to your community.
Can you help give me a clue on how to be more successful with the ladies?