Certainly, fear holding us back from taking life-and-death risks is useful to our survival. I’ve known since early childhood that my penis was unusually small. I entered the world of flirting, dating, sexual relationships, marriage, and I live today with a micropenis.
However, regret for holding back and not fully living life is far more painful and it lasts much longer than rejection. That’s a medical term indicating only extremely small size, comprising the bottom one-half of one percent of the population with respect to size indicated by stretched or erect length.
These negative core beliefs are based on deep-seated feelings that we developed in early childhood of being essentially bad, unlovable or deficient.This is a guest post first published June 10, 2016 – Thanks CL. For the most part, they were victims of their own fear and insecurity. These guys weren’t victims of Nature’s cruel shafting. If you stumble or face a rejection, you aren’t losing — you’re winning. I promise that if you stick with this for a few weeks, your anxiety will lessen dramatically and it will become manageable. Remember, all these exercises are only meant to get you started. Don’t measure your success on whether or not you’re hitting it off with every single person. If you’re a woman wanting to learn to approach — awesome! These exercises are meant to show you that no one is judging your success, only you.Everybody wants the ability to introduce themselves to someone they find attractive. We have “approach anxiety” so deeply rooted that no one else can help us conquer it. Pick 1 or 2 that you think are doable but still challenging.